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How to Keep the Relationship Going

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It seems everywhere you look- television, magazines, even your friends- people are complaining that the romance has gone out of their relationship. You’ve heard the phrase a million times, but you never thought it would happen to you! But let’s face it- when you’ve been together a long time, the passion and excitement that you experienced when you first met isn’t as easily accessed these days. The truth is, every couple is going to go through this from time to time, and you shouldn’t feel like it’s a sign of a decaying relationship. So what should you do about it?

Add some creativity to your normal routines. Instead of relying on the standby activities you do every weekend, put a different twist on it by trying something new. If you’re the athletic types, research something that will fuel your competitive juices (try rock climbing)- there’s nothing like a little contest to turn on the heat! If you’re movie buffs, research nearby film festivals for indie flicks and documentaries that don’t always get the big billing that is given to feature films. Or enroll in an instructional class, like ballroom dancing, and learn something new together!

Try slipping into your partner’s shoes. Most of us dread the daily obligatory activities- you know the ones, cooking, cleaning, taking out the garbage, or walking the dog. Offer to cook a meal for your partner one night, or take the vacuum cleaner for a spin around the apartment. The old cliché still holds true- it’s the little things that count.

Go back to the basics. When you’ve been with one person for a long period of time, it’s easy to take them for granted. Although this is common in any relationship, don’t let it be a deal breaker for yours. Remember to make your partner feel wanted and appreciated- a little note tucked into his briefcase, a bouquet of flowers delivered to her work, even a simple email to ask how the day is going. These things are usually the first to go once you feel secure and stable in a relationship- but they’re exactly the things that your partner needs to be reminded that you care.

Last but certainly not least, don’t forget to listen. It’s easy to let distractions from work, family, friends, church and sports take over your preoccupations. Remember that your partner has just as much on their mind- ask them to share it with you. Don’t sell yourself short in your ability to help ease their minds- sometimes all it takes is a willing ear. There are some great dating tips online also, if your relationship has run its course consider getting back into the online dating scene. The best US dating sites such as singleme.com are perfect for meeting new exciting people and starting to date again.


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